近期在YT看到某網紅說明流量密碼首重精準定位，似乎認為這是一件重要且可以做到的事
個人認同前項，但不苟同後者
精準定位僅存在於理想狀態，發生機率極低，卻是多數人以為憑藉選擇或努力即可達到的境界
我知道你想做，也該做，但重點不是做不做，而是做不到怎麼辦!?
翻譯一下：我知道你想賺錢，也該賺錢，但重點不是賺不賺錢，而是賺不到錢怎麼辦!?
理想豐滿，現實骨感；若兩者混為一談，將導致認知失調
以人生進程為軸，列舉三例：
1.就學應試
每個學子都希望考好成績，將來有好出路
即便你十分優秀且努力，卻不一定能如願
儘管用功念書，但不能保證猜對考題，或狀態良好
儘管認真選科，但不一定掌握未來趨勢，適才適所
期望精確的同時，總有更多不確定性接踵而來
2.求職面試
除非獵頭擇優，一般人踏入社會的起手式通常為「職場選妃」
履歷初篩，考試濾除，面談鑑別，然後實習驗證
一連串的流程，往往只能定位出雜質，稱不上精準識才
到頭來，匯集一群同類相互扶持/內捲，真正的大佛不見得瞧得起小廟
3.結婚生子
你的孩子不是你的孩子，是藉由你來到世上的獨立個體
許多父母在子女成年後就忘了初衷，將所有心力放在「塑造另一個自己」
世代衝突因此而起，卻因羈絆而永無止息
智慧因閱歷而積累，年歲不以增長而昇華
創造價值的方式多如牛毛，結婚/生子並非唯一選項，更無關對錯
倘無承擔責任的決心與意願，毋須隨波逐流，一個人亦十分精彩
「你認為自己在做選擇，還是無路可走！」
所謂串流平台，可視為商品櫥窗
販賣的是網紅作品，交易的是流量(關注)
人心思變且貪懶，投其所好如飲海水，愈喝愈渴
聲稱能精準定位者若非認知不足，就是過度自信，鮮少有大智慧
換個角度思考，接受變化的常態，勇於應對與適應，才貼近現實
務實面對人生每個過程，盡心準備且保留寬裕，抗擊力自然比他人強，關鍵時刻的存活率也較高
與其強調虛無的精確，不如強化內心的道德勇氣，與當責意識
一時贏，可能是運氣；一直贏，才是本事
I recently saw an influencer on YT explain that the key to network traffic is precise targeting, seemingly advocating for it to be both important and achievable.
I agree with the first point, but not the second.
Precise targeting exists only in ideal conditions, with an extremely low probability of occurrence, yet it's something most people believe can be achieved through choice or effort.
I know you want to do it, and you should do it, but the key point isn't whether you do it, but what if you can't!?
Translation: I know you want to make money, and you should make money, but the key point isn't whether you make money, but what if you can't!?
Ideals are full of promise, while reality is harsh. Confusing both leads to cognitive dissonance.
Considering life's journey, let's take three examples:
1. Studying and taking exams
Every student hopes for good grades and a promising future.
Even if you're exceptionally talented and hardworking, you may not always achieve your goals.
Studying diligently doesn't guarantee you'll answer the exam questions correctly or perform well.
Choosing subjects carefully doesn't guarantee you'll grasp future trends or find the right talent for the right role.
The desire for precision always comes with greater uncertainty.
2. Job Interviews
Unless headhunters are selecting the best, the average person's entry into the workforce typically begins with a "job search."
Resumes are screened, and exams/interviews/internships are conducted to verify the applicants.
This series of processes often only identifies impurities and cannot be considered accurate talent identification.
Ultimately, it brings together a group of similar individuals for mutual support or internal competition.
Even the true Buddha may not look the small temple.
3. Get married and have children
Your children are not your children; they are independent individuals who came into the world through you.
Many parents forget their original intentions once their children reach adulthood, focusing all their energy on "shaping another version of themselves."
Generational conflict arises from this, but it never ends because of blood tie.
Wisdom accumulates through experience, but mankind exaltation doesn’t depend on age.
There are countless ways to create value; marriage and having children aren't the only options, nor are they right or wrong.
If you don't have the determination and willingness to take responsibility, don't just follow the crowd; you can still be very fulfilled on your own.
"You think you're making a choice, or perhaps you're at a dead end!"
Streaming platforms can be seen as merchandise showcases.
What's sold are influencer works, and what's traded is network traffic (attention).
Human nature is fickle and lazy, and catering to its preferences is like drinking seawater; the more you drink, the thirstier you become.
Those who claim to be able to pinpoint targets either lack knowledge or are overconfident, rarely possessing profound wisdom.
Thinking differently, accepting the constant state of change, and bravely responding and adapting are the only ways to stay close to reality.
Facing every stage of life pragmatically, preparing diligently, and maintaining a margin of safety will naturally make you more resilient than others and increase your chances of surviving critical moments.
Rather than emphasizing vague precision, it's better to strengthen your inner moral courage and sense of responsibility.
Winning temporarily may be luck; winning consistently is real ability. |
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