111年度：https://www.jkforum.net/thread-16139312-1-1.html
112年度：https://www.jkforum.net/thread-17862568-1-1.html
每逢年初，總習慣探詢他人的新年願望，並觀察其去年的執行成效
答案通常是「不如預期」，外加一堆自我安慰的藉口
聽其言，不如觀其行，此識人之道往往有助於參透人情義理
對生活的助益，即屏蔽無謂的人際
人，終其一生就是要與自己相處、相較、相知、相惜
他人只是串場的過客，總有離去的一天
看不透，抱以不切實際的期望，徒增苦痛
不如投資、精進自我，偕志同道合者併進，形塑影響力的正向循環：
「成就自我的同時，他人也因而受惠」
2024年，往成長之路邁進一大步(735.9%)，進階「超越自我」領域
審視個人特質，並非「理性」，而是「務實」
這間接推導出一項真理：
「自我認知愈真確，愈能循最小阻力之路，發展天賦」
沒有奇蹟，只有累積；靠運氣獲得的，終究會憑實力還回去
不斷藉由學習修正自身缺陷、強化優勢，得以見識不存在於舒適圈的景象
若滿足虛榮而停歇，就極難再起步前行
At the beginning of each year, I always make it a habit to inquire about other people’s New Year’s resolutions and observe their implementation results last year.
The answer is usually "not as good as expected", plus a bunch of self-comforting excuses.
It is better to watch people’s actions than listening to their words. This way of understanding people often helps to recognize their feelings and principles.
What helps in life, is shielding unnecessary interpersonal relationships.
People spend their entire lives getting along with, comparing with, knowing, and cherishing themselves.
Others are just passers-by, and they will eventually leave one day.
Failure to see clearly and having unrealistic expectations will only increase suffering.
It is better to invest, improve yourself, and work with like-minded people to create a positive cycle of influence:
"When you achieve yourself, others will also benefit from it."
In 2024, take a big step towards growth (735.9%) and advance into the field of "beyond myself".
Examining personal characteristics is not "rational" but "pragmatic".
This indirectly leads to a truth:
"The truer your self-awareness is, the more likely you are to follow the path of least resistance and develop your talents."
There are no miracles, only accumulation; what you get by luck will eventually be returned by strength.
Continuously learn to correct your own shortcomings and strengthen advantages, so that you can see scenes that do not exist in comfort zone.
If you stop to satisfy vanity, it will be extremely difficult to start moving forward again. |
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