1.序：
https://www.jkforum.net/thread-20294484-1-1.html
2.冥念：
https://www.jkforum.net/thread-20365088-1-1.html
3.詞術：
https://www.jkforum.net/thread-20396865-1-1.html
定義：賦予規律的良好行為，不靠意志力的自主專注，塑造無能耗的永動機制，即慣習。
堅毅，是項美德，也是邁向成功的必備條件之一
然而，許多人誤解為「臨陣磨槍」、「一夜精神」，似乎以為只要堅持住那一刻(陣子)，就能實現期望，諸如：
考個好學校(位)、通過百大企業面試、完成業務評鑑、獲得晉升/加薪、在爭議中搶占制高點等…
可曾想過，那些只靠一時努力(或稱不上努力)就能獲取的獎項/地位，門檻/價值極低，如同現在與20年前的大學生，兩者的含金量有著「質」的差距
非但如此，連分辨都做不到的人，不在少數！
「學歷不等於能力，你的價值體現在與他人的比較差異：為什麼是你，而非他們？」
窄巷競爭，即便勝者亦屬平庸；廣域探索，才有機會超越顛峰
世界很大，但總得走出去才能體會；堅毅，要用在對的方向，更要懂得持盈保泰的方法
以拳擊為例：被擊倒的那一刻，支撐你再站起來的不是獲勝的慾望，而是平日不斷訓練的艱辛。
換句話說，慾望僅能激起名為「堅持」的意志力，極其脆弱且有限
而毋須刻意驅使的規律、自主行為，宛如習慣般自然，即是慣習的實踐，「堅毅」只是其一
「慣習」源於內化思維，由社會文化/環境決定的第二天性，能影響人們在這個世界的所有行為
慣於思索，就不易犯傻；習於舉措，就不會遲滯
這是一種自動化的邏輯機制，無前提制約，亦無關成敗
一經領會，所知即所得，一切水到渠成；成功固然可喜，失敗尚有所獲
至此，「冥念」、「詞術」、「慣習」構成實現願望的初段循環：
1.起心動念→訴諸規劃→養成習慣
2.起心動念→養成習慣→訴諸規劃
不難，看過應該都懂，但為何60%以上的人都受制於他人的期望!?
次回：愚蠢之牆
發文條件：未知 限期：待定
請有興趣的讀者耐心等候~
Definition: Habitus are good behavior that are governed by rules, achieved through self-directed focus without the need for willpower, and which create a perpetual motion mechanism that consumes no energy.
Perseverance is a virtue and an essential condition for success.
However, many people misunderstand it as "last-minute cramming" or "a burst of energy overnight," seemingly believing that as long as they persist for a moment (or a period of time), they can achieve their expectations, such as:
Getting into a good school, passing an interview at a top 100 company, completing a performance review, getting a promotion/pay raise, or gaining the upper hand in a controversy, etc...
But have they ever considered that those awards/status obtained solely through momentary effort (or even a lack thereof) have extremely low barriers to entry/value? Like the difference between a university degree today and one from 20 years ago, the difference in their perceived value is qualitative.
Not only that, but many people can't even distinguish between these differences!
"Education doesn't equal to ability; your value lies in your comparison with others: Why you, and not them?"
Competition in narrow alleys yields only mediocre victors; only through broad exploration can one surpass the peak.
The world is vast, but one must venture out to truly experience it; perseverance must be in the right direction, and one must understand how to maintain and preserve it.
Take boxing as an example: the moment you're knocked down, what keeps you up isn't the desire to win, but the arduousness of daily training.
In other words, desire can only ignite a willpower called "persistence," which is extremely fragile and limited.
Only natural, unforced patterns and autonomous behaviors, as natural as habits, constitute habitual practice; "persistence" is one aspect of this.
"Habitus" originate from internalized thinking, a second nature determined by social culture and environment, influencing all human behavior in the world.
Those accustomed to thinking are less likely to make foolish mistakes; those accustomed to action are less likely to be hesitant.
This is an automated logical mechanism, without preconditions or constraints, and unrelated to success or failure.
Once grasped, knowledge will reflect what you achieve, and everything falls into place naturally; success is certainly gratifying, but even failure offers lessons.
Thus, "Contemplation," "Words magic," and "Habitus " constitute the initial cycle for achieving a wish:
1. Initial thought → Planning → Habit formation.
2. Initial thought → Habit formation → Planning.
It's not difficult; those who have read it should understand. But why are over 60% of people constrained by the expectations of others!?
Next Chapter: The Wall of Foolishness.
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To interested readers who may be concerned, please be patient. |
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